Eye contact psychology

Strong eye contact

Eyes are the psychological window to read someone’s mind.

In the previous blog, I explained about the smile. But the only smile is not the thing by which you can attract people. eyes are a more powerful part to attract people.to get things done by other people's eyes will help you more.

To get the work done from others you need to impress them and for that, you must know what they want from this world. Proper eye contact can increase the bond between humans. Which Leeds to loving and the kind relation between human.

Whenever you discuss with someone look into his eyes, eyes will tell is he interesting to discuss with you or forcefully listening to you. So, you can change your topic as per his interest. Whenever you accidentally or anyhow to look into someone’s eye or in the feedback he looks into your eye when he is interested to interconnect with you. if he avoids eye contact with you he is no more interested in you. Leave him alone. (except opposite Factor that blocks eye contact is shyness.)

2)      You can order through your eye.

When you want to get work done from someone, then the most known way is to order him by using words. If you want a glass of water from your child you can ask or order him to “bring a glass of water”. But what if he doesn’t obey, he doesn’t listen to your words. you must have to show your angry eyes. Your angry eyes will order him to bring that glass of water.

Eyes can order to do those things which you can’t order by using your words. Eyes can order someone to love you, to hate you. When you look directly into someone’s eye, into the center of the eye, into the center of pupils. With a passionate love feeling, this contact will produce the sensation of being in love.

Your eyes can order anyone, to be with you, to leave you alone, to respect you. You can use your eyes too afraid of someone.

3)      Eyes discuss more than words.

Yes, your eyes discuss more than anything. suppose you’re at your balcony looking at the girl standing next to your building. When she looks back to you the discussion that happened during this eye contact can’t be explained by words.

When you look deep into someone’s eye then you don’t need to say to him that you are interested to talk with him. You are influenced by him. your deep eye contact will say those things.

4)      We believe eyes more than any five senses.

Visual proof is more considerable proof for anyone. We believe our eyes more than anything. Remember, after listening from all your friends someone stares you for a full lecture or full day it seems that he loves you. Still, you use to look at that person again and again just to confirm that does he stares at you. If you found that he really stares at you, then you confirm that oh yes, he really loves me. After that, it’s your part to respond to him back or not.

       The more important part during the selection of a life partner is to see her/him. We are unable to decide if he is good for you or not, just by listening from others.  You can talk with your future partner over the mobile phone still you need to meet him just to see her. Once you confirm through your eyes you can decide.  Because you got the visual proof for your decision.

pupil lock eye contact

5) Type of eye contacts and there meaning

Different types of eye contact form during different situations. But you can change the situation just by changing eye contact.

·         Pupil Lock

Directly looking into the core part of the eye which shows intense feeling. 

·         Bulk

When the speaker tries to bring the attention of the listener then he needs to use this type of contact. Looking into the audience's eyes one by one.  To show that everyone is important to him.

·         Embarrassed 

Looking downwards or avoiding contact just to escape from an attack. When low ranking employee stands in front of the boss then the formed contact is embarrassed contact.

My next blog will be About all types of eye contact, their meaning, and how to use them, to get things done or to attract people.