Showing posts with label Social psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social psychology. Show all posts

How to brainwash yourself


Brainwash isn’t a bad thing you can brainwash yourself for success, brainwash yourself to be happy. This technic is not limited to this only, you can brainwash yourself to forget someone or to be confident in life and many more things can be done by brainwash.

What is brain wash,Brainwash yourself
What is Brainwash

 What is brainwash?


“Brainwashing is nothing but changing the beliefs” we are the creatures of habit, repetition creates belief.   We are brainwashed to believe something and that we trust today. The people who trust god they are brainwashed to believe in god. The people who don’t trust god they are brainwashed not to trust the god existence.

Brainwashing reduces someone’s ability to think independently. It forces you to believe something continually telling you the same thing and preventing you from other things.  

How brainwashing works?


You see the same advertisement, again and again, every day and the repetition of advertising change your beliefs.  Suppose you want to purchase a shirt for yourself and when you go to the mall you will choose a brand which you had seen many times. You think that this brand is trustworthy even you say I heard about this many times this must be good. But the truth is that there are a lot of other shirts which are very good than a brand shirt but you will not believe that easily.

Brainwash yourself
Advertising brainwash


Whoever controls the media controls the mind. Nowadays we believe in media blindly, I don’t mean that media do the wrong thing but media could change the belief of people. Whatever we see in the news we trust easily.


Brainwash example


People use brainwash technic for their purpose and profit.  Only Advertising companies are not using the brainwashing technique. A lot of people use brainwashing consciously or unconsciously.
Religions brainwash people to believe in their religion, politician brainwashes the public to trust their party and to vote for them.

The best personal life example, whenever you have a fight with someone what you do?  You try to show people how another person is wrong and how you are right. You use your own technics to brainwash the people. You want them to believe you not the other person.

re-educate your mind
Childhood learning


We learned a lot of things in our childhood. We made most of our beliefs in our childhood. The parents and society are responsible for that, whatever we believe today is just because of our society. Our society forces us to believe that but still, you think that this is my own opinion this is the best example of brainwashing.

Brainwash yourself


If you don’t run your own mind someone else will run your mind. But he will run your mind for his purpose for his profit not for your profit. So it’s better to run your own mind for a good thing.
First of all, stop being brainwashed by others.  Do some mental effort before doing anything.

Our mind works in two ways an automatic way and an attention way.

When you answer for 1+1 =? Is automatic

But when you find an answer to 128548+ 74040=? You need attention

So pay attention to whatever you do. Pay attention don’t use your mind in an automatic way.

Re-educate your brain


Read-only that thing which will help you to reach your goals. Don’t get involved in unnecessary things they will just distract you.  Do the same thing again and again. If you want to lose weight take step towards it. thinking only about how well you can lose your body mass will help you more. Keep your mind always busy towards your goal.

How others are showing you the same thing again and again. Telling you the same thing again.do the same but, for good, for yourself. Tell yourself you can do that, you can achieve that. The last few decades in India were horrible. 80% of graduated youth was brainwashed.  They selected their graduation unconsciously.  Now India has a huge number, unemployed engineers.  

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Difference between boy and girl



Boys and girls are different from each other because of the biological difference. That biological difference is responsible for the abilities of the girls and boys. Who do have the good and greater abilities?
Well to understand this we need to understand the below points.
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How the boys and girls are different biologically  

The most known difference between boys and girls is the, physical shape of organs or the different type of reproductive organ.  Hair growth area of boys and girls are different. We can differentiate between boy and girl because of the voice, shape of the organs, and hair. instead of all the above differences there are lot of other factors, which are responsible to make boy as boy and girl as girl.
The size of boy and girls brain is different
The connectivity between hemispheres of brain is different
And these two differences are also responsible to possess different abilities in different gender. Boys are physically strong than girls. Girls have ability to switch between tasks.

How these biological differences affect the abilities

As boys are physically strong boys can do hard physical work. And might be due to this old age people won’t allow women to work for wealth. But now concepts are changed. The biological difference is responsible for the cultural difference between men and women. Cultural difference is responsible for the ability difference between men and women.
Culture changes with the geography and the abilities also changes with geography. The culture where women used to wear the sarees and dress like sarees are not good at driving. Her dress is not comfortable for driving. The culture which don’t allow women to go school that culture cannot create women engineers and doctors. That doesn’t mean women can’t be engineer.
Size of male brain is greater than the female brain. And bigger is not always better. Lot of animals have the bigger brain than the human still these animals are not intelligent than human. Connectivity between two hemispheres is more in women and men have connectivity within the hemisphere. Due to this, girl have greater language abilities and ability to switch between the task.

Who is more clever boys or girls

Actually, we can’t say that particular gender is clever than other one but we can say if males are good at driving then females are good at cooking. Everything changes with the time. Girls are accepting the new challenges and becoming the stronger than ever. Culture is main factor for the gender growth, if culture don't allow particular gender to do particular task then that gender cannot show talent. Suppose in some cultures male don’t wash their own clothes then these males will be always dependent on someone for the clean cloth. Or you can consider any other example.
Few decades ago in countries like India female need to be depend on male for the wealth and security from outer world. The culture was like that but, now women are independent. Abilities of gender changed with culture.

Who is more dependent

Both are dependent on each other boys need girls and girls need boys as life partner. Other requirement changes person to person. Women depend on men for financial reason in general. Men depends on women for the household reason.


Emotional difference between boys and girls is also due to the biological and cultural difference. We always find that girls are more emotional than boys. Girls play with the emotion, for girl’s emotion is weapon but, for boys the physical power is weapon.  Girls have the greater language abilities and girls use that ability every time to attract and influence others.
We all know that girls can influence any one easily than the boys. Influencing other and getting the things done from other is very easy task for girls. Influencing someone is art everyone doesn’t know that art and who knows that art can win the friends and people. But girls have few difficulty’s also as girls are afraid of everything. fear of being used by someone is more in girls than the boys. Boys enjoy the being used by others for physical relation. But girl never use boy for physical reason. Girls use boys for financial reason.
 

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