Do we really love.

You love someone because the person is your family member or the relative. This kind of love is common it is due to the relation. We love because we are in relation. Mother loves her children’s.  we love our brothers and sister because they are our family members.

. Except for this love, one more kind of love exist due to that we build relationships with other.in short two kind of love exist 

Love

•  We love someone because the person is a family member or relative.
• We are in a relationship because of the love.

The love which is the cause of relation is more considered and more discussed topic over the time.

Why this topic has this much importance?

Might be due to the desire of almost all the human being. Everyone wants to be loved by others.

  What is love

The strong feeling of affection is love. We get affected by something which we seek. Suppose you are hungry and you see a fruit the feeling about fruit at that time importance of that fruit for you is different than when you are not hungry or if you have other better option.

We love someone because we seek something which can be fulfilled by that person and that’s why we love. There is nothing like unconditional love always there is a condition. I must feel good when I love you or when you love me.

   Why do we love or want to be loved

Most of the time people love someone because they wanted to be loved back. And if this doesn’t happen then the who started to love will not love other for a long time. Everyone wants to be an important person for other.

Love

Being loved by others is the more pleasurable feeling and to get that everyone tries. We are dependent on others to fulfill our requirements. We need life partner for the emotional support and one who is perfect for us as life partner we get affected by that person. We feel as we are in love. That feeling is nothing but the fulfillment of our requirement.

 What are the responsible factors for love

Life partner expectation of everyone is different. Generally, the life partner expectation of all the boys are the same and the expectation of all the girls is also the same.  But there is a huge difference between girls and boy’s expectation. Boys want a hot and sexy life partner and the girls want rich and handsome.

Boys love is sex oriented and girls love is money oriented. Girls always try to be sexy that’s why girls invest more money and time on beauty and boys invest more time on career and earning. The expectation of girls and boys are changing with the time.

  What is true love

Whatever we think about the true love that doesn’t exist. Love is nothing but unsaid deal ‘I will fulfill your requirement you fulfill my requirement, the requirement can be anything. 

When any boy proposes to a girl the reason might be she is hot, she is caring, she behaves well. She is attractive for the reasons. But there is always a reason to love someone. We don’t love the things which are not pleasurable. We cry in love that is also the pleasure.

   Do we really love

In fact, there is nothing like love. Love is just mask of the deal which is necessary. Consider any kind of love any kind of situation there is a reason to love. I love my friends because they help me and I feel good with them. The emotional benefit from someone is also the reason of love.

The love between boy and girl is the more discussed topic. Why any unknown boy or girl loves to opposite gender? The answer is known to everyone steel we hide. Sexual attraction is the main factor of love. The gardens and hotels are full with such kind of loving couple. Sex is the reason for love. Love is not the reason for sex. Sex is the physical pleasure but which impacts more on emotion. Having sex with someone is not love but love without sexual attraction is impossible. We hide our feeling under the word love. We never say I want to sleep with you but we say will you marry me.