Do we really love.

You love someone because the person is your family member or the relative. This kind of love is common it is due to the relation. We love because we are in relation. Mother loves her children’s.  we love our brothers and sister because they are our family members.

. Except for this love, one more kind of love exist due to that we build relationships with other.in short two kind of love exist 

Love

•  We love someone because the person is a family member or relative.
• We are in a relationship because of the love.

The love which is the cause of relation is more considered and more discussed topic over the time.

Why this topic has this much importance?

Might be due to the desire of almost all the human being. Everyone wants to be loved by others.

  What is love

The strong feeling of affection is love. We get affected by something which we seek. Suppose you are hungry and you see a fruit the feeling about fruit at that time importance of that fruit for you is different than when you are not hungry or if you have other better option.

We love someone because we seek something which can be fulfilled by that person and that’s why we love. There is nothing like unconditional love always there is a condition. I must feel good when I love you or when you love me.

   Why do we love or want to be loved

Most of the time people love someone because they wanted to be loved back. And if this doesn’t happen then the who started to love will not love other for a long time. Everyone wants to be an important person for other.

Love

Being loved by others is the more pleasurable feeling and to get that everyone tries. We are dependent on others to fulfill our requirements. We need life partner for the emotional support and one who is perfect for us as life partner we get affected by that person. We feel as we are in love. That feeling is nothing but the fulfillment of our requirement.

 What are the responsible factors for love

Life partner expectation of everyone is different. Generally, the life partner expectation of all the boys are the same and the expectation of all the girls is also the same.  But there is a huge difference between girls and boy’s expectation. Boys want a hot and sexy life partner and the girls want rich and handsome.

Boys love is sex oriented and girls love is money oriented. Girls always try to be sexy that’s why girls invest more money and time on beauty and boys invest more time on career and earning. The expectation of girls and boys are changing with the time.

  What is true love

Whatever we think about the true love that doesn’t exist. Love is nothing but unsaid deal ‘I will fulfill your requirement you fulfill my requirement, the requirement can be anything. 

When any boy proposes to a girl the reason might be she is hot, she is caring, she behaves well. She is attractive for the reasons. But there is always a reason to love someone. We don’t love the things which are not pleasurable. We cry in love that is also the pleasure.

   Do we really love

In fact, there is nothing like love. Love is just mask of the deal which is necessary. Consider any kind of love any kind of situation there is a reason to love. I love my friends because they help me and I feel good with them. The emotional benefit from someone is also the reason of love.

The love between boy and girl is the more discussed topic. Why any unknown boy or girl loves to opposite gender? The answer is known to everyone steel we hide. Sexual attraction is the main factor of love. The gardens and hotels are full with such kind of loving couple. Sex is the reason for love. Love is not the reason for sex. Sex is the physical pleasure but which impacts more on emotion. Having sex with someone is not love but love without sexual attraction is impossible. We hide our feeling under the word love. We never say I want to sleep with you but we say will you marry me.    

How to forget Ex

Whenever we do the mistake to select our life partner/boyfriend/girlfriend or when our life partner changes the behavior after a few days or years. We are unable to decide what to do. Because you're addicted to the person but now you don’t like his/her behavior for some reason.

Can't forget ex-girlfriend/boyfriend 

Being in relation with each other just because of addiction and fighting for every little thing can destroy both of you. Even if you are not in contact with each other still you are always thinking about him/her then also you are suffering from such a mental state which is not less dangerous than any deadly disease.

Can’t forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?

It’s up to you how you're using your resources. If you're using the resources to make your own loss then you’re the fool. The brain is our more valuable resource. Don’t keep him busy with useless feelings.

You always think about your ex why he/she did this to me. Why did this happen to you or many more? That time you’re wasting your brain power. This can resist your creative thinking and progress.

    Why do we need to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?

 It’s OK if you have break-up with your partner but if that breakup hearts you for every single second then you need to forget your ex and memory’s related to ex. To move forward it’s important to forget the ex.

 If you are unable to forget ex then the feeling that nourished you when you were in relation the same memories can disturb you.  Disturb mind can’t do anything, focus in life is more important. To concentrate on your life and progress, you must forget your ex. Just remember the lesson from the past. Don’t feel a loser.

   How to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?

    Replace the task

When you’re away from your loving one your mind always thinks about him/her. Whatever is the reason for the breakup. You might be trying to meet him/her again and you can’t. Exactly that hurts you more?

How to forget ex-girlfriend/boyfriend

Some people find another life partner to forget the first one that is the best option to forget the ex. But what if you didn’t get another life partner how can you replace such strong feeling with another one.

Make yourself busy with interesting things initially you will find difficult to focus on anything, but try again and again. Someday you will forget the disturbing thing.

Everything changes with time. Brainwash yourself.

Don’t avoid seeing ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend

Avoiding someone is not a good option to forget someone. How much you try to ignore that much your thinking about him. Just change the image of that person don’t meet or talk with your ex as ex. be friendly, I know it’s quite difficult but not impossible.

Rather I say arrange meetings with your EX once in a quarter but don’t discuss past. Help each other, don’t even think to discuss past. Still, if you want to move away from each other, just pass the good wishes to each other and move.

Learn from your past 

Every failure teaches us a very good lesson and it’s up to you how do you use it in the future. Don’t do the same mistake again in life.  Be careful while choosing your life partner. It's better to wait longer than to marry wrong.

How to choose the better one?

Well, this is the trickier question. We don’t have structured data for a good life partner. And the definition of good life partner changes person to person. Your expectation from the life partner and the response to your expectation can decide the rank of life partner. It's not like that, always another one is wrong. You can be also wrong in your place.

 If you lost the interest in your life partner after a few time then don’t expect the good response from a life partner. If you have changed behavior then you will also get the changed result.

Keep your love flame always warm. Humans get bored to the repeated thing. Bring good changes in your behavior. Improve your relation at every step. Your love must strengthen every day. The bad one can be changed to a good one and a good one can turn into a bad one. You are the driver of your relationship on your path there is no chance to blame anyone for any reason.

After breakup who moves easily boy or girl

LOVE

 

 

Boys always criticize girls, and girls always criticize boys. Both complain that we never cheat, but another gender always cheats with us. Boys think that girls are cheaters and girls think that boys are fraud. But actually who cheats and who moves easily after the breakup. The one whose love was not true, the one who can move easily after a breakup are the cheaters. 

Still, if we need to compare between boy and girl then who moves easily or who cheat?

Does gender matter for fraud behavior?

Yes, gender is a more important factor when it comes to promises.  The gender difference is not just due to the physical difference. The mentality of both genders is different from each other. The social position diversity causes them to behave dissimilarly.

Why gender matter for fraud behavior?

Nowadays we might not find any difference between boys and girls still the physical and different mental approaches to the same situation. Differs boy and girls from each other. Gender is indirectly responsible for fraud nature.

The male-female ratio is directly responsible for nature. Whose count is less compare to another gender, moves easily after a breakup because that gender has other options. Suppose the girl's count is less than the boys then the girls will move easily after a breakup.

Culture is also an important factor in the behavior of gender. In a culture where girls don’t have the right to take decisions, girls who belong to such a culture are more likely to be cheaters. Because it's easy to be in love but when the time comes to complete the promises girl have to move away. Later on, she realizes that we can’t be with each other. And the culture where girls don’t have the right to make decisions that culture forces her to take such a decision where she has to move away. On the other side boys don’t care about the culture boys are ready to do anything for their love. Boys grown with less restriction that’s why boys can dare to do anything.

Mentality is the other factor which is responsible for fraud behavior. Girls are shy and show less courage in such case, because girls fear about survival she always thinks like what will happen if we leave home. If her family doesn’t support for relationship. Girls are becoming independent still lot of girls are depending on someone. Dependency for money is the main cause of fear.

Its always said that girl find boy for money and boy find girl for lust. If anyone is unable to fulfill the partner expectation, then one who doesn’t get the expected things from partner can move away. If boy fails to earn money and fails to fulfil her financial requirement then girl will move from the boy easily. And if girl fail to complete his lust then boy can move away easily from girl.

Fear of losing the status is more in girls because still in some region girl faces more problem when she gets rejected after use. When any boy uses her and through her away she need to face more problem. In short if any girl is in relation for few year and she was used for the physical pleasure then she can leave boy. However, in boys having sex with girl is symbol of status. So, boys don’t care about being used for sex. But girls fear of losing the status.at max what can happen with boys is any girl can use him for money and she can fool him. still girl’s losses her character. Girl losses her character in both the cases. That’s why girls are always careful about relationship.

Boy having many girlfriends is known as stud and smart but in case of girl its different. The path where we need to lose lot and where always we are in danger can be left at any time. The path of relation is same for some people and such people can cheat and moves easily after breakup. Because they don’t regret for losing danger path.

The social situation of any gender is responsible for his/her behavior. The one who have more chances to get another partner in life is probably the cheater. The one who have more restriction can’t dare to go against the society and leaves the relation.