Whenever we do the mistake to select our life partner/boyfriend/girlfriend or when our life partner changes the behavior after a few days or years. We are unable to decide what to do. Because you're addicted to the person but now you don’t like his/her behavior for some reason.
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Being in relation with each other just because of addiction and fighting for every little thing can destroy both of you. Even if you are not in contact with each other still you are always thinking about him/her then also you are suffering from such a mental state which is not less dangerous than any deadly disease.
Can’t forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?
It’s up to you how you're using your resources. If you're using the resources to make your own loss then you’re the fool. The brain is our more valuable resource. Don’t keep him busy with useless feelings.
You always think about your ex why he/she did this to me. Why did this happen to you or many more? That time you’re wasting your brain power. This can resist your creative thinking and progress.
Why do we need to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?
It’s OK if you have break-up with your partner but if that breakup hearts you for every single second then you need to forget your ex and memory’s related to ex. To move forward it’s important to forget the ex.
If you are unable to forget ex then the feeling that nourished you when you were in relation the same memories can disturb you. Disturb mind can’t do anything, focus in life is more important. To concentrate on your life and progress, you must forget your ex. Just remember the lesson from the past. Don’t feel a loser.
How to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?
Replace the task
When you’re away from your loving one your mind always thinks about him/her. Whatever is the reason for the breakup. You might be trying to meet him/her again and you can’t. Exactly that hurts you more?
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Some people find another life partner to forget the first one that is the best option to forget the ex. But what if you didn’t get another life partner how can you replace such strong feeling with another one.
Make yourself busy with interesting things initially you will find difficult to focus on anything, but try again and again. Someday you will forget the disturbing thing.
Everything changes with time. Brainwash yourself.
Don’t avoid seeing ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend
Avoiding someone is not a good option to forget someone. How much you try to ignore that much your thinking about him. Just change the image of that person don’t meet or talk with your ex as ex. be friendly, I know it’s quite difficult but not impossible.
Rather I say arrange meetings with your EX once in a quarter but don’t discuss past. Help each other, don’t even think to discuss past. Still, if you want to move away from each other, just pass the good wishes to each other and move.
Learn from your past
Every failure teaches us a very good lesson and it’s up to you how do you use it in the future. Don’t do the same mistake again in life. Be careful while choosing your life partner. It's better to wait longer than to marry wrong.
How to choose the better one?
Well, this is the trickier question. We don’t have structured data for a good life partner. And the definition of good life partner changes person to person. Your expectation from the life partner and the response to your expectation can decide the rank of life partner. It's not like that, always another one is wrong. You can be also wrong in your place.
If you lost the interest in your life partner after a few time then don’t expect the good response from a life partner. If you have changed behavior then you will also get the changed result.
Keep your love flame always warm. Humans get bored to the repeated thing. Bring good changes in your behavior. Improve your relation at every step. Your love must strengthen every day. The bad one can be changed to a good one and a good one can turn into a bad one. You are the driver of your relationship on your path there is no chance to blame anyone for any reason.
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