Showing posts with label Behavioral psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Behavioral psychology. Show all posts

How to brainwash yourself


Brainwash isn’t a bad thing you can brainwash yourself for success, brainwash yourself to be happy. This technic is not limited to this only, you can brainwash yourself to forget someone or to be confident in life and many more things can be done by brainwash.

What is brain wash,Brainwash yourself
What is Brainwash

 What is brainwash?


“Brainwashing is nothing but changing the beliefs” we are the creatures of habit, repetition creates belief.   We are brainwashed to believe something and that we trust today. The people who trust god they are brainwashed to believe in god. The people who don’t trust god they are brainwashed not to trust the god existence.

Brainwashing reduces someone’s ability to think independently. It forces you to believe something continually telling you the same thing and preventing you from other things.  

How brainwashing works?


You see the same advertisement, again and again, every day and the repetition of advertising change your beliefs.  Suppose you want to purchase a shirt for yourself and when you go to the mall you will choose a brand which you had seen many times. You think that this brand is trustworthy even you say I heard about this many times this must be good. But the truth is that there are a lot of other shirts which are very good than a brand shirt but you will not believe that easily.

Brainwash yourself
Advertising brainwash


Whoever controls the media controls the mind. Nowadays we believe in media blindly, I don’t mean that media do the wrong thing but media could change the belief of people. Whatever we see in the news we trust easily.


Brainwash example


People use brainwash technic for their purpose and profit.  Only Advertising companies are not using the brainwashing technique. A lot of people use brainwashing consciously or unconsciously.
Religions brainwash people to believe in their religion, politician brainwashes the public to trust their party and to vote for them.

The best personal life example, whenever you have a fight with someone what you do?  You try to show people how another person is wrong and how you are right. You use your own technics to brainwash the people. You want them to believe you not the other person.

re-educate your mind
Childhood learning


We learned a lot of things in our childhood. We made most of our beliefs in our childhood. The parents and society are responsible for that, whatever we believe today is just because of our society. Our society forces us to believe that but still, you think that this is my own opinion this is the best example of brainwashing.

Brainwash yourself


If you don’t run your own mind someone else will run your mind. But he will run your mind for his purpose for his profit not for your profit. So it’s better to run your own mind for a good thing.
First of all, stop being brainwashed by others.  Do some mental effort before doing anything.

Our mind works in two ways an automatic way and an attention way.

When you answer for 1+1 =? Is automatic

But when you find an answer to 128548+ 74040=? You need attention

So pay attention to whatever you do. Pay attention don’t use your mind in an automatic way.

Re-educate your brain


Read-only that thing which will help you to reach your goals. Don’t get involved in unnecessary things they will just distract you.  Do the same thing again and again. If you want to lose weight take step towards it. thinking only about how well you can lose your body mass will help you more. Keep your mind always busy towards your goal.

How others are showing you the same thing again and again. Telling you the same thing again.do the same but, for good, for yourself. Tell yourself you can do that, you can achieve that. The last few decades in India were horrible. 80% of graduated youth was brainwashed.  They selected their graduation unconsciously.  Now India has a huge number, unemployed engineers.  

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Psychological impact of colour



Colours


A lot of factors are responsible for our selection process. Unconsciously we are thinking about the many factors while selecting anything. Colour is one factor out of that responsible factor. Colour influence us to select or reject something. Colour can swing our mood.



colour impact on food selection


Colour of food can change our mind about the food. The smell of food and colour of food can suggest you select or reject the particular food. Some people admit that they tasted the strawberry just because of the colour but they never loved that taste of strawberry, while many people crazy about the strawberry.


strawberry
Colour can be used to judge the fruit taste dark red watermelon is more preferred than the slightly less red watermelon. This might be due to the experience of colour and taste relation about watermelon. But in many cases when colour is not related to the quality of the object still due to the particular colour the selection of object effects.


watermelon
watermelon


If your children are not eating properly try some different colour food, check his response for different colour food. 

    Colour impact on cloth selection

The clothes are supposed to use for protection of the body. But humans always considered the colour factor while selecting the clothes. Few people select a particular colour because they love that colour, but few consider the other factor while selecting the colour. The other factors might be the symbolic colour of their religion. Excluding the colour response to heat, there are many reasons to select a particular colour. 


To stand out of the common colour. That’s why the colour of joker clothes is different than others.
Try the same type of clothes in a different colour. Find out which one suits you more. Select that colour for your further clothe collection. Or you can wear a suitable colour cloth on special occasions.

Colour impact changes with age


Different age has a different experience. The state of our mind before ten years and after ten years will not be the same as on today. Similarly, interest change with age. 

Colour impact change with culture


Different culture has a different meaning for a different colour. The meaning behind the colour is the reason to select a particular colour or not.

Shades are more important in colour selection


The same colour with different shades has a different effect. A shade of colour is also an important factor for. If someone loves a red colour it does not mean that he loves all the shades of red.


Shades

















Quality related to colour is also important



The quality-related to colour play important role in the selection of colour. White colour is related to cleanliness you will not find someone who uses black blanket or bed-sheet. While black can be used to look thinner.


















Effect of colour


Different colour has a different effect on a verity of factors. The people in the high-temperature area is less leaned to black colour the reason is to respond to the heat of that colour. The effect of colour on temperature is responsible for the selection.





How to forget Ex

Whenever we do the mistake to select our life partner/boyfriend/girlfriend or when our life partner changes the behavior after a few days or years. We are unable to decide what to do. Because you're addicted to the person but now you don’t like his/her behavior for some reason.

How to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?, Can’t forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?
Can't forget ex-girlfriend/boyfriend 


Being in relation with each other just because of addiction and fighting for every little thing can destroy both of you. Even if you are not in contact with each other still you are always thinking about him/her then also you are suffering from such a mental state which is not less dangerous than any deadly disease.

Can’t forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?


It’s up to you how you're using your resources. If you're using the resources to make your own loss then you’re the fool. The brain is our more valuable resource. Don’t keep him busy with useless feelings.

You always think about your ex why he/she did this to me. Why did this happen to you or many more? That time you’re wasting your brain power. This can resist your creative thinking and progress.

    Why do we need to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?



 It’s OK if you have break-up with your partner but if that breakup hearts you for every single second then you need to forget your ex and memory’s related to ex. To move forward it’s important to forget the ex.

 If you are unable to forget ex then the feeling that nourished you when you were in relation the same memories can disturb you.  Disturb mind can’t do anything, focus in life is more important. To concentrate on your life and progress, you must forget your ex. Just remember the lesson from the past. Don’t feel a loser.

   How to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?


    Replace the task


When you’re away from your loving one your mind always thinks about him/her. Whatever is the reason for the breakup. You might be trying to meet him/her again and you can’t. Exactly that hurts you more?

How to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend
How to forget ex-girlfriend/boyfriend

Some people find another life partner to forget the first one that is the best option to forget the ex. But what if you didn’t get another life partner how can you replace such strong feeling with another one.

Make yourself busy with interesting things initially you will find difficult to focus on anything, but try again and again. Someday you will forget the disturbing thing.
Everything changes with time. Brainwash yourself.

Don’t avoid seeing ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend


Avoiding someone is not a good option to forget someone. How much you try to ignore that much your thinking about him. Just change the image of that person don’t meet or talk with your ex as ex. be friendly, I know it’s quite difficult but not impossible.

Rather I say arrange meetings with your EX once in a quarter but don’t discuss past. Help each other, don’t even think to discuss past. Still, if you want to move away from each other, just pass the good wishes to each other and move.

Learn from your past 


Every failure teaches us a very good lesson and it’s up to you how do you use it in the future. Don’t do the same mistake again in life.  Be careful while choosing your life partner. It's better to wait longer than to marry wrong.

How to choose the better one?



Well, this is the trickier question. We don’t have structured data for a good life partner. And the definition of good life partner changes person to person. Your expectation from the life partner and the response to your expectation can decide the rank of life partner. It's not like that, always another one is wrong. You can be also wrong in your place.

 If you lost the interest in your life partner after a few time then don’t expect the good response from a life partner. If you have changed behavior then you will also get the changed result.

Keep your love flame always warm. Humans get bored to the repeated thing. Bring good changes in your behavior. Improve your relation at every step. Your love must strengthen every day. The bad one can be changed to a good one and a good one can turn into a bad one. You are the driver of your relationship on your path there is no chance to blame anyone for any reason.



Game of emotions


Human beings are not just a chemical composition. Humans are a composition of emotion and chemical processes. For the evolution of humans, only a complex structure is not responsible. The complexity of emotion also plays a major role.


emotion
emotions

      What is emotion

The state of mind is emotion. A mental response to the outer circumstances is emotion. When we gain something profitable that time whatever you feel is the emotion. Whenever you are in trouble the feeling of that time is emotional. The mental outcome of physical activity and sensible activity is emotion.
The mental response to outer actions for survival is emotion.  

    Type of emotion

Emotion can be classified into many types but the major emotions or basic emotions are
·         Anger
·         Fear
·         Happiness
·         Sadness

All the above emotion is found in every kind of humans. These emotions influence to act on something or Force to act. Without these emotions or all the other types of emotion, evolution was not possible.
These emotions are the main cause of all the events. Sometimes physical needs also lost importance in front of emotional needs.

   Effect of emotion on daily life.


Is it OK to have the emotion, or not having the emotion?
 Well, emotions are as important as oxygen. Human take an effort to save themselves or to save others just because of emotion. Fear of losing life is the cause of the existence of all the leaving animals. If you are thinking about the trees and plants do they have emotions? they might have the emotion or might not be, but they don’t take such active action as the animal takes. This might be due to a lack of emotion. If they have emotion we are unable to notice them.
Emotions are the reason for efficiency, accuracy, and decision capacity.
Emotion can affect health. Different emotion has a different effect on physical health.
   

     Which emotions are best.

emotion
emotion

 

All emotions are necessary for life but excessive use or excess of emotion can harm. Everything is poison beyond the limit. Love, Happiness caring nature is supposed to be a good emotion. Anger, fear, sadness is supposed to be bad emotion.

Good emotion is the reason for the bad emotion, and bad emotion is the reason for good emotion.
We fear to lose something whom do we love. The reason for fear is love. If someone restricts our happiness then we get angry at them. Life is a game of emotion. We need to use every emotion in a balanced way.

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