How to use different type of eye contact

Whenever we meet someone what happens first thing is eye contact. And if you are good to use proper eye contact you can influence and attract any one very easily.to be good player at eye contact technique you must know type of eye contact and how to use them.

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Pupil to pupil lock

What does mean by pupil to pupil eye contact

Pupil to pupil eye contact shows that your very much interested in the person with whom you lock your ayes pupil to pupil.

How to use pupil to pupil lock

This type of eye contact is mostly used by them who are in close relationship. If you create such type of eye contact with any one he will be yours within no time. Pupil to pupil lock ignites the flame of love.it establishes the trust between people. Shy people avoid to establish pupil to pupil lock this doesn’t mean that they don’t love you.

Embarrassing eye contact  

What does mean by Embarrassing eye contact 

Eye contact doesn’t mean that you must look into the eyes. Actually, you don’t look into the eyes in this type of eye contact. Some people form very good eye which helps them. This type of eye contact shows that your shamed of whatever you did.

How to use Embarrassing eye contact  

Looking into eye helps to ignite the love flame and trust but not every time.in fact eye contact is the thing which increases the level of your emotion. So, if your ashamed of anything and if you are not able to say sorry through your eyes then better to not look into the eyes. If your elders are angry on you or someone is scolding you then use this type of eye form which says more effective sorry than your words. If you’re not able to do this just look down don’t look into the eyes of elders.

Bulk type of eye contact

What does mean by bulk type of eye contact.

If you’re looking towards only one person while you’re talking to number of people its not good to you. Other people might feel that you’re not interested to tell them or to discuss with them.to avoid this we need to use bulk eye contact technique.

How to use bulk eye contact technique

While your talking to large number of people look into the everyone’s eye alternatively. Just looking into the eye for few seconds will help you more than anything to bring the attention, but for that second other person must feel that you are eagerly talking to him. That few seconds will engage him with you till the end of discussion.

If you are teacher and few of your students are not scoring good in your subject then try this technique. Look into there eyes talk to them they must feel that you are giving them importance. The one more benefit of this technique is you can eliminate fear if you are talking first time in front of huge crowed.

Hypnotic type of eye contact 

What does mean by hypnotic type of eye contact 

This type of eye contact is normal eye to eye or pupil to pupil eye contact. This type of eye contact has ad-on power benefits. Hypnotic eye contact convinces other very easily. With you are looking to someone with inviting and suggestive eye, this will hypnotize them to do your work or follow your orders.

How to use hypnotic eye contact technique

It requires more practice to form hypnotic eye. Make your work easier by talking with eye. As you are reading others mind looking into their eyes. They are also reading you those people might not be perfect in reading bot not even bad at it. Your internal intense feeling of suggestion will help to form hypnotic eye contact.

Never ever stare at someone’s body part for longer time. Don’t look at your interest area of his or her body. Instead look into the eyes as per the situation and topic emotion. It will help to get that interesting part of his/her body. The facial expression also plays very crucial role while you’re talking with someone. Smile is one of them to know more about smile read my other blogs.

Difference between boy and girl

Boys and girls are different from each other because of the biological difference. That biological difference is responsible for the abilities of the girls and boys. Who do have the good and greater abilities?

Well to understand this we need to understand the below points.

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How the boys and girls are different biologically  

The most known difference between boys and girls is the, physical shape of organs or the different type of reproductive organ.  Hair growth area of boys and girls are different. We can differentiate between boy and girl because of the voice, shape of the organs, and hair. instead of all the above differences there are lot of other factors, which are responsible to make boy as boy and girl as girl.

The size of boy and girls brain is different

The connectivity between hemispheres of brain is different

And these two differences are also responsible to possess different abilities in different gender. Boys are physically strong than girls. Girls have ability to switch between tasks.

How these biological differences affect the abilities

As boys are physically strong boys can do hard physical work. And might be due to this old age people won’t allow women to work for wealth. But now concepts are changed. The biological difference is responsible for the cultural difference between men and women. Cultural difference is responsible for the ability difference between men and women.

Culture changes with the geography and the abilities also changes with geography. The culture where women used to wear the sarees and dress like sarees are not good at driving. Her dress is not comfortable for driving. The culture which don’t allow women to go school that culture cannot create women engineers and doctors. That doesn’t mean women can’t be engineer.

Size of male brain is greater than the female brain. And bigger is not always better. Lot of animals have the bigger brain than the human still these animals are not intelligent than human. Connectivity between two hemispheres is more in women and men have connectivity within the hemisphere. Due to this, girl have greater language abilities and ability to switch between the task.

Who is more clever boys or girls

Actually, we can’t say that particular gender is clever than other one but we can say if males are good at driving then females are good at cooking. Everything changes with the time. Girls are accepting the new challenges and becoming the stronger than ever. Culture is main factor for the gender growth, if culture don't allow particular gender to do particular task then that gender cannot show talent. Suppose in some cultures male don’t wash their own clothes then these males will be always dependent on someone for the clean cloth. Or you can consider any other example.

Few decades ago in countries like India female need to be depend on male for the wealth and security from outer world. The culture was like that but, now women are independent. Abilities of gender changed with culture.

Who is more dependent

Both are dependent on each other boys need girls and girls need boys as life partner. Other requirement changes person to person. Women depend on men for financial reason in general. Men depends on women for the household reason.

Emotional difference between boys and girls is also due to the biological and cultural difference. We always find that girls are more emotional than boys. Girls play with the emotion, for girl’s emotion is weapon but, for boys the physical power is weapon.  Girls have the greater language abilities and girls use that ability every time to attract and influence others.

We all know that girls can influence any one easily than the boys. Influencing other and getting the things done from other is very easy task for girls. Influencing someone is art everyone doesn’t know that art and who knows that art can win the friends and people. But girls have few difficulty’s also as girls are afraid of everything. fear of being used by someone is more in girls than the boys. Boys enjoy the being used by others for physical relation. But girl never use boy for physical reason. Girls use boys for financial reason.

 

Do we really love.

You love someone because the person is your family member or the relative. This kind of love is common it is due to the relation. We love because we are in relation. Mother loves her children’s.  we love our brothers and sister because they are our family members.

. Except for this love, one more kind of love exist due to that we build relationships with other.in short two kind of love exist 

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•  We love someone because the person is a family member or relative.
• We are in a relationship because of the love.

The love which is the cause of relation is more considered and more discussed topic over the time.

Why this topic has this much importance?

Might be due to the desire of almost all the human being. Everyone wants to be loved by others.

  What is love

The strong feeling of affection is love. We get affected by something which we seek. Suppose you are hungry and you see a fruit the feeling about fruit at that time importance of that fruit for you is different than when you are not hungry or if you have other better option.

We love someone because we seek something which can be fulfilled by that person and that’s why we love. There is nothing like unconditional love always there is a condition. I must feel good when I love you or when you love me.

   Why do we love or want to be loved

Most of the time people love someone because they wanted to be loved back. And if this doesn’t happen then the who started to love will not love other for a long time. Everyone wants to be an important person for other.

Love

Being loved by others is the more pleasurable feeling and to get that everyone tries. We are dependent on others to fulfill our requirements. We need life partner for the emotional support and one who is perfect for us as life partner we get affected by that person. We feel as we are in love. That feeling is nothing but the fulfillment of our requirement.

 What are the responsible factors for love

Life partner expectation of everyone is different. Generally, the life partner expectation of all the boys are the same and the expectation of all the girls is also the same.  But there is a huge difference between girls and boy’s expectation. Boys want a hot and sexy life partner and the girls want rich and handsome.

Boys love is sex oriented and girls love is money oriented. Girls always try to be sexy that’s why girls invest more money and time on beauty and boys invest more time on career and earning. The expectation of girls and boys are changing with the time.

  What is true love

Whatever we think about the true love that doesn’t exist. Love is nothing but unsaid deal ‘I will fulfill your requirement you fulfill my requirement, the requirement can be anything. 

When any boy proposes to a girl the reason might be she is hot, she is caring, she behaves well. She is attractive for the reasons. But there is always a reason to love someone. We don’t love the things which are not pleasurable. We cry in love that is also the pleasure.

   Do we really love

In fact, there is nothing like love. Love is just mask of the deal which is necessary. Consider any kind of love any kind of situation there is a reason to love. I love my friends because they help me and I feel good with them. The emotional benefit from someone is also the reason of love.

The love between boy and girl is the more discussed topic. Why any unknown boy or girl loves to opposite gender? The answer is known to everyone steel we hide. Sexual attraction is the main factor of love. The gardens and hotels are full with such kind of loving couple. Sex is the reason for love. Love is not the reason for sex. Sex is the physical pleasure but which impacts more on emotion. Having sex with someone is not love but love without sexual attraction is impossible. We hide our feeling under the word love. We never say I want to sleep with you but we say will you marry me.    

How to forget Ex

Whenever we do the mistake to select our life partner/boyfriend/girlfriend or when our life partner changes the behavior after a few days or years. We are unable to decide what to do. Because you're addicted to the person but now you don’t like his/her behavior for some reason.

Can't forget ex-girlfriend/boyfriend 

Being in relation with each other just because of addiction and fighting for every little thing can destroy both of you. Even if you are not in contact with each other still you are always thinking about him/her then also you are suffering from such a mental state which is not less dangerous than any deadly disease.

Can’t forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?

It’s up to you how you're using your resources. If you're using the resources to make your own loss then you’re the fool. The brain is our more valuable resource. Don’t keep him busy with useless feelings.

You always think about your ex why he/she did this to me. Why did this happen to you or many more? That time you’re wasting your brain power. This can resist your creative thinking and progress.

    Why do we need to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?

 It’s OK if you have break-up with your partner but if that breakup hearts you for every single second then you need to forget your ex and memory’s related to ex. To move forward it’s important to forget the ex.

 If you are unable to forget ex then the feeling that nourished you when you were in relation the same memories can disturb you.  Disturb mind can’t do anything, focus in life is more important. To concentrate on your life and progress, you must forget your ex. Just remember the lesson from the past. Don’t feel a loser.

   How to forget ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend?

    Replace the task

When you’re away from your loving one your mind always thinks about him/her. Whatever is the reason for the breakup. You might be trying to meet him/her again and you can’t. Exactly that hurts you more?

How to forget ex-girlfriend/boyfriend

Some people find another life partner to forget the first one that is the best option to forget the ex. But what if you didn’t get another life partner how can you replace such strong feeling with another one.

Make yourself busy with interesting things initially you will find difficult to focus on anything, but try again and again. Someday you will forget the disturbing thing.

Everything changes with time. Brainwash yourself.

Don’t avoid seeing ex-girlfriend/ boyfriend

Avoiding someone is not a good option to forget someone. How much you try to ignore that much your thinking about him. Just change the image of that person don’t meet or talk with your ex as ex. be friendly, I know it’s quite difficult but not impossible.

Rather I say arrange meetings with your EX once in a quarter but don’t discuss past. Help each other, don’t even think to discuss past. Still, if you want to move away from each other, just pass the good wishes to each other and move.

Learn from your past 

Every failure teaches us a very good lesson and it’s up to you how do you use it in the future. Don’t do the same mistake again in life.  Be careful while choosing your life partner. It's better to wait longer than to marry wrong.

How to choose the better one?

Well, this is the trickier question. We don’t have structured data for a good life partner. And the definition of good life partner changes person to person. Your expectation from the life partner and the response to your expectation can decide the rank of life partner. It's not like that, always another one is wrong. You can be also wrong in your place.

 If you lost the interest in your life partner after a few time then don’t expect the good response from a life partner. If you have changed behavior then you will also get the changed result.

Keep your love flame always warm. Humans get bored to the repeated thing. Bring good changes in your behavior. Improve your relation at every step. Your love must strengthen every day. The bad one can be changed to a good one and a good one can turn into a bad one. You are the driver of your relationship on your path there is no chance to blame anyone for any reason.